Life is too short to focus on problems and trials. It seems different when you are in the child’s perspective who does not care much into the future but the current event in his or her limited surrounding. Where mama and papa brings him or her, that’s all what matters. When you are an adult with the child, however, perspective changes.
Instead of worrying, why not take videos of the life your child is living so that later you can watch them and perhaps even learn from them. It can make you look back also into your own childhood and realize how much you have changed. Just be sure you have the rca video cables intact.